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9.29.2011

Fur LOVE!








I am so excited to own a fur faux coat from Mickael Kors!
I know what your thinking, "hey but you live in Miami, right??"
Well peeps let me say we can have our fair share of cold weather down here...and no, its never gonna be freezing like in Chicago for example (although I did freeze my @ss off last January on my birthday!! it was almost 50 degrees!)
Anyway, that is pretty cold for an island girl like myself you know..(so stop laughing!)
Back to the coat...ahhh I just love it!!!
Plus I found it at Ross so I bought it for $80 :)))
In this post I'm wearing one of my favorite Steve Madden booties...and the red sox was an inspiration from Band of Outsiders Fall 2011.
Hot or cold, rain or sunshine...I am planning to wear this coat..A LOT!
besito!
Farah

9.26.2011

I LUV FEATHERS!










I am sure some will say that this trend is over, but..not for me!!
Trends come and I stay with them as long as I want...Just like that old song used to say : "it's my party...and.." well I would sing it like this:
"It's my feathers I will wear if I want to..wear if I want too, weeeeaar if I want toooooo...you would wear them too if you had them tooo!!!"

would ya?
Farah

PS: Btw the new version is Hip Hop...just saying! ;))

9.23.2011

Pursue YOUR Happiness


Lately I have been searching for ways to keep myself happy in spite of all the crazy things that happen in my life or simply around me. It's inevitable to have poisonous people full of negative energy around you and sometimes this energy is so contagious that you get sucked by it.
I have been thinking of 5 little steps that have helped me, maintain happiness (and sanity).


1. Be Content with WHO you are and HOW you look
Yes, they say happiness comes from within and that is true to an extent, cause there is happiness elsewhere as well, but back to this principle, you have to be at peace with your identity. Many times throughout the course of my life, I have wanted to try, to pretend to have certain characteristics that I admire in others, such as subtlety, classiness just to mention a few, but the intent has been useless. The wild-loud "latina" always comes through...some people hate it, some people find it annoying and a few like it...and that is ok. Because I prefer being friends with 5 people that "get me" than 300 that don't. I am not saying there isn't any "room to grow" because they're always is, but the real me, I cannot change. I know I am unique and as long as I know I do well to others instead of harm, I will be content. I will come to peace with this corny, silly, loud, passionate self.
How you look can be quite tough to accept as well. Media just keeps scrubbing what's supposed to be beautiful in our faces every day, which can be sooo different from the person we see in the mirror. Of course I have wanted to be as skinny as every supermodel I see, at least have thinner thighs to fit in every jean perfectly, but I don't. And never will. No matter how much I kill myself in the gym, I WILL NEVER HAVE SKINNIER THIGHS THAN THIS, EVER! they would only become more muscular...and I have come to peace with this as well. Plus I will never ever stop eating the best things in life, such as brownies, pizza, cheeeessseee ETC!
I have discovered that there is always someone that secretly admires you. Just like you can secretly admire that colleague of yours that has the most stylish wardrobe, best skin, luscious lips etc...yeap, there is always someone admiring your hair, the way you speak, your fashion style and so on. Very few times in your life you may find out cause people usually do not say these things...but trust me...someone out there is wishing to be you.




2.After the complain...add the "but".
Everyone complains...it's human nature. I just find that sometimes we complain a little toooo much. This becomes a pattern and all of a sudden you can find yourself complaining about everything. We have to try to control the URGE to complain. That is why every time I find myself complaining about stuff, I force myself to add the "but" after the complain. Example: "man it's so freaking HOT! but at least I am living in a tropical place" or "ugh! I hate traffic!! but at least I'm in a car and not taking public transportation"
it's all about converting a negative into a positive...it takes practice but everything in life has to be learned and applied on a regular basis to become a part of our daily routine.


3.Let your Inner KID come out and play.




Do you remember how much you enjoyed being careless and free? 
As we become older, we take life waaaaay to seriously. We stop laughing and enjoying the simple things in life. We need to loosen up. Yes, life gets much tougher as you grow and responsibilities just keep adding but, if you start to nourish your inner kid, trust me you will start to realize that life is shorter than we plan it to be. Try to have fun in everything you do. Laugh as often as you can. Do silly things, dance in the rain, dance naked in your room, let yourself loose.
And, hey, cry when you have to...when you really have to.In life you will experience loss, sickness and death. These as well are part of the wonderful package called "life". Embrace the sadness of those. There is a time for everything and I consider tears, a calming shower to the soul. But, when it's done, it's done.


4.May your first words of the day be "thanks"
The first minutes of my day have to be calm and peaceful in order for this crabby self  to be in a good mood throughout the day. I take it reaaaaally slow...I toss, I stretch, I grab CoCo (my adored dog)who is as sleepyhead as I am, and I hug and kiss him until he gets tired of it. This is the moment where I give thanks. I thank the Lord for breathing, for being alive, for having no pain in my body, for being able to sleep until late jejeje etc. This helps me be aware of all the good things I have and to not take anything for granted.




5.GIVE
Sometimes we focus too much in US. What WE need, what WE want. Trust me, nothing is more gratifying than giving. Give a smile to strangers, some will feel so awkward that a stranger is just smiling at them that they will freeze. Others will respond kindly. Just Smile, it feels so nice!!. 
Give hugs, give support, give your shoulder...give advice. Give your ear to someone who just needs to vent. Give your heart,to those you feel like they will appreciate it of course. But GIVE.
People will start giving back.


I know these can be kinda hard to incorporate in our daily life, I have not yet mastered some of these to the fullest but I try..everyday. And I wont stop until I have.
Happiness is something you have to PURSUE...


Besitos!! Farah

9.21.2011

L.A.M.B. SS2012


I just LOVE collections that I can easily see myself wearing it on the street.
Gwen is one of my style icons and I usually love her pieces. These ones look so effortless.
God only knows how much of a sucker I am for jumpsuits, rompers and colorful minis...a simple mix of a tomboyish girl...
what do you think??
Besito
Farah

9.18.2011

Mint Lemonade Cocktail Recipe (and How-to Video!)

I have been meaning to add a "food and beverage" section to this blog a long time now but hadn't gotten around to it...until now!



Finally took the courage to make a little how-to video as well, which can be kinda weird, the fact of seeing someone and hearing then live after seeing so many lifeless pictures of them..don't u think?


Well, today I wanted to post a recipe of this heavenly cocktail...heavenly because it literally lifts me up and makes me dream with every sip! Don't mock me peeps, once you try it..you will know what I'm talking about!

You will need:

1oz Gin
1 lemon
1 to 2 tbsp of sugar 
3 to 4 mint leaves
Tonic Water
muddler
ice

Cut the lemon in about 7 to 8 wedges.This will make it easier to muddle and extract all of its juice. Put wedges in a glass or container where you can actually muddle it. Put sugar and mint leaves and begin muddling making sure the lemon juice is coming all out. Pour Gin and transfer it to a container where you can shake all the ingredients. If you have a boston shaker like I do use it, if not ANY container that has a lid will do. Shaking the mix will blend everything together, especially the sugar, as well as giving the cocktail a frothy texture...yum!
Transfer everything back to the original glass (or where you are planning to drink the cocktail)top it off with some tonic water.
Smell, taste, dream and ENJOY! Bon appetit!
Salud..2 gitanas everywhere!




9.14.2011

My Wedding

This month we have celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary and I decided to post some pictures of that extraordinary day when this gitana got married. That meant settling down, which is not exactly my cup of tea.
Thank God marriage has not changed me at all, and I continue to look for that "place" on earth where I can stay still a couple of years...at least!


Marriage is quite tricky. It's a full time job but with no paid vacation or days off (that would be nice!) and you got to work at it 24/7.
I ain't gonna lie, we have had our fair share of rough times. Still that's the beauty of it all, sticking with it. Working it out together...always.
Sometimes (in my case, like a million) you feel you want to give up and RUN...but then that's when you need to stay put. You have to let the current take you to the nearest stop...go with the flow.
Thank God I have done this, cause my relationship means more to me than anything! (yes, even more than chocolate,shoes or my dog CoCo!)















I am truly happy that I married the right man. The right man for ME!